Isn’t She Lovely

February 7th, 2008

Isn’t she lovely
Isn’t she wonderful
Isn’t she precious
Less than one minute old
I never thought through love we’d be
Making one as lovely as she
But isn’t she lovely made from love

Isn’t she pretty
Truly the angel’s best
Boy, I’m so happy
We have been heaven blessed
I can’t believe what God has done
Through us he’s given life to one
But isn’t she lovely made from love

Isn’t she lovely
Life and love are the same
Life is Aisha
The meaning of her name
Londie, it could have not been done
Without you who conceived the one
That’s so very lovely made from love

Milestones of Early Life

October 21st, 2007

At no time in your life does more growth and change occur than in the first nine months before birth. Here are the amazing milestones of that time in your life:

Day 1: Conception: Of the 200,000,000 sperm that try to penetrate the mother’s egg cell, only one succeeds. At that very moment, a new and unique individual is formed. All of the inherited features of this new person are already set – whether it’s a boy or girl, the color of the eyes, the color of the hair, the dimples of the cheeks and the cleft of the chin. He or she is smaller than a grain of sugar, but the instructions are present for all that this person will ever become.

The first cell soon divides in two. Each of these new cells divides again and again as they travel toward the womb in search of a protected place to grow.

Day 6-14:The new individual at first attaches loosely to the wall of the womb, then burrows deeply and attaches securely to it over the next week. Sensitive pregnancy tests can now show positive, but this depends on the level of hormone produced by the new life. By the end of the second week, the mother’s menstrual period is suppressed by this hormone (hCG) which is produced by her child.

Day 17: Blood vessels begin to form.4 Remarkably, the future sex cells that will give rise to sperm or eggs for a new generation begin to group together - only 17 days after this new life is alive itself.

Day 18-20: The foundations of the brain, spinal cord, and nervous system are laid.

Day 21: The heart begins to beat, unsurely at first, gaining strength day by day. The heart beats 70 times per minute at first, reaching a maximum of 170-190 at seven weeks, and slowing a bit to 160-180 at eight weeks. A day later the eyes begin to develop. The earliest stages of the ears are now present.

Day 26-27: The lungs now begin to form.

About 4 weeks 

Day 28-32: Two tiny arms make their appearance and budding legs follow two days later. The beginnings of the mouth take shape. The nose starts to develop. The thyroid gland begins to grow. Blood flows in the baby’s veins but stays separate from the mother’s blood. The tongue now begins to form. The face now makes its first appearance.

Day 36: The baby’s eyes develop their first color in the retina (see photo above, right).

Day 40: The baby makes her first reflex movements. Touching around the mouth with a fine bristle causes her to flex her neck.

Day 41: The fingers begin to form, followed by the toes a few days later.

Day 42: The baby develops nerve connections that will lead to a sense of smell. The brain is now divided into 3 parts – one to experience emotion and understand language, one for hearing and one for seeing. Joints begin to form. Mother now misses second period.

Day 44: Buds of milk teeth appear. Facial muscles develop. Eyelids begin to form, protecting the developing eyes. Elbows take shape. Internal organs are present, but immature. 99% of muscles are present; each with its own nerve supply. Electrical activity is detectable in brain.

7 weeks

Day 52: Spontaneous movement begins. The baby then develops a whole collection of moves over the next 4 weeks including hiccupping, frowning, squinting, furrowing the brow, pursing the lips, moving individual arms and legs, head turning, touching the face, breathing (without air), stretching, opening the mouth, yawning, and sucking.

 8 weeks

8 Weeks: The baby is now well-proportioned, and about the size of a thumb. Every organ is present. The liver is making blood, the kidneys function, and the heart beats steadily. The skull, elbows, and knees are forming. Of the 4500 structures in the adult body, 4000 are already present. The skeleton of the arms and legs and the spine begins to stiffen as bone cells are added.

9 Weeks: If prodded, the baby’s eyelids and hands close. Genitalia that were forming in the 7th week now become visible, indicating whether it’s a boy or girl. However, the doctor won’t be able to tell by ultrasound until the 12th to 20th week. Early muscular movements begin. The thyroid gland turns on.

10 Weeks: Fingerprints begin their 7 week long formation. The fingernails begin to develop. The eyelids now fuse together until month 7, protecting the delicate eyes. The number of connections between nerves and muscles has tripled since last week.

11 weeks

11 Weeks: The baby now “practices” breathing, since she will have to breathe air immediately after birth. The baby urinates. Her stomach muscles can now contract. Vocal chords and taste buds form. She can make complex facial expressions and even smile.

12 weeks 

12 Weeks: Fine hair begins to grow on the upper lip and chin and eyebrows. The baby swallows and responds to skin stimulation.

13 Weeks: The face is prettier, and facial expressions may resemble the parents’. The baby is active, but mom doesn’t feel anything yet.

14 weeks

15 Weeks: A wild production of nerve cells begins and continues for a month. A second surge will occur at 25 weeks.

16 weeks

4 Months: Nostrils and toenails become visible. The baby may suck her thumb, turn somersaults and has a firm grip. The ovaries of girls contain beginnings of eggs. She begins to develop sleeping habits. At about 4 ½ months she is able to experience pain.

5 Months: The testes descend in boys. Mom may feel the baby kick, turn or hiccup and may be able to identify a bulge as an elbow or head. Each side of the brain has a billion nerve cells now.

20 weeks 

6 Months: The baby will be able to hear by next week. The child sleeps and wakes, nestling in her favorite positions to sleep, and stretches upon waking up.

7 Months: The eyelids begin to reopen, preparing to see the outside world. Eyelashes have now become well developed.

8 Months: Skin becomes pink and smooth. The pupils of eye respond to light. Fingernails reach to the tip of the finger. The baby is really getting cramped now.

9.5 Months: The child triggers labor and birth occurs, an average of 264-270 days after conception.

Birth

And not until the baby has gone through all these events on the inside can we see the new child on the outside.

Need Help?

October 18th, 2007

CRISIS PREGNANCY CENTERS ONLINE

This is just about the best place to go for help! All services are free and confidential. At this site you can find a center near you. Crisis pregnancy centers can give you referrals to any other agencies you may need, like financial assistance, medical, and many other services. You can contact a counselor on this site through e-mail.
At the center you can obtain—–

*free pregnancy test
*counseling
*refferals to other needed resources
*some centers offer ultrasound
*parenting classes
*baby clothes and other baby items
*post abortion counseling
*if adoption is something you are considering, they can direct you to an appropiate agency
These are just some of the services offered.

WIC PROGRAM (USA)

Go to this site to find an agency near you, and a more detailed outline of what they offer. WIC is a program that offers supplemental nutritious food , nutrition education and counseling. And WIC can give you referrals to other health, welfare, and social services.

MEDICAID

Find out if you qualify for free health insurance

FIRST GOV

Benefits, Grants and Financial Assistance~
These links contain information for benefits like Social Security, Medicare, pensions, food and utility assistance as well as federal grants for non-profits and colleges.

THE NURTURING NETWORK

The Nurturing Network is designed to meet the needs of all pregnant women with a special emphasis on assisting college and working women.

Phone #
1-800-TNN-4MOM

Nurturing Network

MATERNITY HOMES

CATHOLIC CHARITIES USA

HARBOR HOUSE MATERNITY HOMES

STAND UP GIRL.COM

A wonderful site full of useful information

CHILD SUPPORT AID

CHOOSE BIRTH.COM

Useful information, resources, and links can be found here.

CARE NET

Find a center near you with the center locator

# 1-800-395-help

UNPLANNED PREGNANCY ADVICE BOARD

If considering an abortion, or just in need of support, information, and encouragement, please visit the Unplanned Pregnancy Advice board. Many of the women who post there have been in a difficult pregnancy at one time.

From Pregnancy Help Now

Hippocratic Oath

August 5th, 2007

Hippocratic Oath — Classical Version

I swear by Apollo Physician and Asclepius and Hygieia and Panaceia and all the gods and goddesses, making them my witnesses, that I will fulfil according to my ability and judgment this oath and this covenant:

To hold him who has taught me this art as equal to my parents and to live my life in partnership with him, and if he is in need of money to give him a share of mine, and to regard his offspring as equal to my brothers in male lineage and to teach them this art - if they desire to learn it - without fee and covenant; to give a share of precepts and oral instruction and all the other learning to my sons and to the sons of him who has instructed me and to pupils who have signed the covenant and have taken an oath according to the medical law, but no one else.

I will apply dietetic measures for the benefit of the sick according to my ability and judgment; I will keep them from harm and injustice.

I will neither give a deadly drug to anybody who asked for it, nor will I make a suggestion to this effect. Similarly I will not give to a woman an abortive remedy. In purity and holiness I will guard my life and my art.

I will not use the knife, not even on sufferers from stone, but will withdraw in favor of such men as are engaged in this work.

Whatever houses I may visit, I will come for the benefit of the sick, remaining free of all intentional injustice, of all mischief and in particular of sexual relations with both female and male persons, be they free or slaves.

What I may see or hear in the course of the treatment or even outside of the treatment in regard to the life of men, which on no account one must spread abroad, I will keep to myself, holding such things shameful to be spoken about.

If I fulfil this oath and do not violate it, may it be granted to me to enjoy life and art, being honored with fame among all men for all time to come; if I transgress it and swear falsely, may the opposite of all this be my lot.
Translation from the Greek by Ludwig Edelstein. From The Hippocratic Oath: Text, Translation, and Interpretation, by Ludwig Edelstein. Baltimore: Johns Hopkins Press, 1943.
Hippocratic Oath—Modern Version

I swear to fulfill, to the best of my ability and judgment, this covenant:

I will respect the hard-won scientific gains of those physicians in whose steps I walk, and gladly share such knowledge as is mine with those who are to follow.

I will apply, for the benefit of the sick, all measures [that] are required, avoiding those twin traps of overtreatment and therapeutic nihilism.

I will remember that there is art to medicine as well as science, and that warmth, sympathy, and understanding may outweigh the surgeon’s knife or the chemist’s drug.

I will not be ashamed to say “I know not,” nor will I fail to call in my colleagues when the skills of another are needed for a patient’s recovery.

I will respect the privacy of my patients, for their problems are not disclosed to me that the world may know. Most especially must I tread with care in matters of life and death. If it is given me to save a life, all thanks. But it may also be within my power to take a life; this awesome responsibility must be faced with great humbleness and awareness of my own frailty. Above all, I must not play at God.

I will remember that I do not treat a fever chart, a cancerous growth, but a sick human being, whose illness may affect the person’s family and economic stability. My responsibility includes these related problems, if I am to care adequately for the sick.

I will prevent disease whenever I can, for prevention is preferable to cure.

I will remember that I remain a member of society, with special obligations to all my fellow human beings, those sound of mind and body as well as the infirm.

If I do not violate this oath, may I enjoy life and art, respected while I live and remembered with affection thereafter. May I always act so as to preserve the finest traditions of my calling and may I long experience the joy of healing those who seek my help.
Written in 1964 by Louis Lasagna, Academic Dean of the School of Medicine at Tufts University, and used in many medical schools today.

Deuteronomy 30:19-20

August 5th, 2007

19 This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you
that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses.
Now choose life, so that you and your children may live 20 and that
you may love the LORD your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast
to him.

Psalm 139

July 10th, 2007

13 For you created my inmost being;

you knit me together in my mother’s womb. 

14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
 your works are wonderful,
 I know that full well.

15 My frame was not hidden from you
  when I was made in the secret place.
  When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,

 16 your eyes saw my unformed body.
  All the days ordained for me
  were written in your book
  before one of them came to be.

Abortion Statistics

June 6th, 2007

The following is a list of useful abortion statistics. All abortion numbers are derived from pro-abortion sources courtesy of The Alan Guttmacher Institute and Planned Parenthood’s Family Planning Perspectives.

WORLDWIDE

Number of abortions per year: Approximately 46 Million
Number of abortions per day:
Approximately 126,000

Where abortions occur:
78% of all abortions are obtained in developing countries and 22% occur in developed countries.

Legality of abortion:
About 26 million women obtain legal abortions each year, while an additional 20 million abortions are obtained in countries where it is restricted or prohibited by law.

Abortion averages:
Worldwide, the lifetime average is about 1 abortion per woman.

© Copyright 1999-2000, The Alan Guttmacher Institute. (www.agi-usa.org)

UNITED STATES

Number of abortions per year: 1.37 Million (1996)
Number of abortions per day:
Approximately 3,700

Who’s having abortions (age)?
52% of women obtaining abortions in the U.S. are younger than 25: Women aged 20-24 obtain 32% of all abortions; Teenagers obtain 20% and girls under 15 account for 1.2%.

Who’s having abortions (race)?
While white women obtain 60% of all abortions, their abortion rate is well below that of minority women. Black women are more than 3 times as likely as white women to have an abortion, and Hispanic women are roughly 2 times as likely.

Who’s having abortions (marital status)?
64.4% of all abortions are performed on never-married women; Married women account for 18.4% of all abortions and divorced women obtain 9.4%.

Who’s having abortions (religion)?
Women identifying themselves as Protestants obtain 37.4% of all abortions in the U.S.; Catholic women account for 31.3%, Jewish women account for 1.3%, and women with no religious affiliation obtain 23.7% of all abortions. 18% of all abortions are performed on women who identify themselves as “Born-again/Evangelical”.

Who’s having abortions (income)?
Women with family incomes less than $15,000 obtain 28.7% of all abortions; Women with family incomes between $15,000 and $29,999 obtain 19.5%; Women with family incomes between $30,000 and $59,999 obtain 38.0%; Women with family incomes over $60,000 obtain 13.8%.

Why women have abortions
1% of all abortions occur because of rape or incest; 6% of abortions occur because of potential health problems regarding either the mother or child, and 93% of all abortions occur for social reasons (i.e. the child is unwanted or inconvenient).

At what gestational ages are abortions performed:
52% of all abortions occur before the 9th week of pregnancy, 25% happen between the 9th & 10th week, 12% happen between the 11th and 12th week, 6% happen between the 13th & 15th week, 4% happen between the 16th & 20th week, and 1% of all abortions (16,450/yr.) happen after the 20th week of pregnancy.

Likelihood of abortion:
An estimated 43% of all women will have at least 1 abortion by the time they are 45 years old. 47% of all abortions are performed on women who have had at least one previous abortion.

Abortion coverage:
48% of all abortion facilities provide services after the 12th week of pregnancy. 9 in 10 managed care plans routinely cover abortion or provide limited coverage. About 14% of all abortions in the United States are paid for with public funds, virtually all of which are state funds. 16 states (CA, CT, HI, ED, IL, MA , MD, MD, MN, MT, NJ, NM, NY, OR, VT, WA and WV) pay for abortions for some poor women.

© Copyright 1998, The Alan Guttmacher Institute. (www.agi-usa.org)
© Copyright 1997, The Alan Guttmacher Institute. (www.agi-usa.org)
© Copyright 1995, Family Planning Perspectives
© Copyright 1988, Family Planning Perspectives

How Abortions are Performed

April 11th, 2007

Note: weeks are measured since last menstrual period (LMP).

The Abortion Pill, (also known as Mifepristone, M&M, Non-surgical Abortion or Medical Abortion):
Mifepristone abortion is an option up to 8 weeks LMP. Prescription Mifepristone is taken in pill form at the clinic. It causes the end of the pregnancy. Then 24-72 hours later, the woman uses Misoprostol causing the uterus to contract and expel the tissue. A follow-up appointment is required to make sure the abortion is complete. Occasionally more than one follow-up appointment is necessary. To use this method, women must live within 2 hours of a hospital. Some women prefer The Abortion Pill because the process feels more natural and private; they can decide where they are when they go through the experience, such as staying home for the weekend. Side effects of the second medication include cramping, bleeding, diarrhea, nausea, etc.

Vacuum Aspiration:
In the first trimester, usually 6 to 13 weeks, vacuum aspiration is the procedure used to empty the uterus. This traditional first trimester abortion involves three main steps: (1) an injection to numb the cervix, (2) insertion of a soft flexible tube through the cervix into the uterus, (3) suction created by an aspirating machine to remove the uterine contents. It takes less than five minutes to complete.

IPAS Syringe - Early Abortion with Manual Vacuum Aspiration (MVA):
As soon as the pregnancy can be detected by ultrasound (typically 4-5 weeks), an abortion can be performed using a manual aspiration device called the IPAS Syringe. Similar to the suction aspiration procedure, the IPAS system consists of thin flexible tubing, but instead of using a machine to create suction, the suction is created by a handheld syringe. The procedure usually takes less than 5 minutes to complete. Aftercare is the same as with suction aspiration. Availability of this procedure is based upon doctor’s discretion. Abortion by syringe is sometimes referred to as the quiet abortion.

D & E (Dilate and Evacuate):
From 13 to 24 weeks, Feminist Women’s Health Center uses the Dilation and Evacuation (D&E) procedure. Appointments are made for 2-3 consecutive days. On the first day, an ultrasound (sonogram) is performed to determine the size of the fetus. Then, the abortion procedure is begun by numbing the cervix with injections and inserting dilators into the cervix. Overnight these dilators gently expand, opening the entrance to the uterus. The next day, the cervix is again numbed, the dilators are removed, and the doctor uses special instruments to evacuate the uterus removing the pregnancy. The final step is suction using the aspirating machine. In more advanced pregnancies, additional dilators are inserted on the second day and the fetus is removed on the third day. The medical procedure lasts about 10-15 minutes.

Posted from fwhc.org

Stages of Fetal Development

April 11th, 2007

 A baby undergoes rapid fetal development in the nine months he spends in his mother’s womb. A pregnancy is usually measured in 40 weeks of gestation, but many people prefer to measure it in months. The three main stages of fetal development are conception, embryonic development and development of the fetus.Conception usually occurs around week two of the pregnancy. In the two weeks prior to conception, the body is readying the womb for a potential pregnancy by growing a layer of rich, blood perfused tissue. After conception, which takes place around two weeks, the egg makes its way to the uterus, where it is implanted and begins its rapid growth.Embryonic Development is the most critical stage of fetal development, when the systems are undergoing important foundational development. The embryonic state of fetal development takes place from conception to approximately the 11th week of pregnancy. After the second week, the development of the embryo is in full swing. At four weeks, cellular division continues, with the cells dividing between the those that will make up the placenta and those that will make up the baby.By six weeks, the baby’s heartbeat has begun and her arms and legs are developing. At eight weeks, the intestines begin to form and teeth start growing under the gums. By the end of the embryonic stage of fetal development, the embryo has developed joints and the beginning of the irises. Major organs have begun their development, as well as the central nervous system.

Fetal Development begins after the 11th week, when the baby is called a fetus. From the 11th to 16th week, the fetus begins developing distinguishable genitals, hair, nails and vocal chords. The kidneys begin to process bodily fluids, and the liver begins to function as it should. Bones also begin to harden at this time.

From the 16th to 20th week, the baby undergoes another rapid growth spurt. He begins to develop fat under a thin skin. The heart pumps a staggering 25 quarts of blood every day. Meconium, a baby’s waste product, accumulates in the bowel. The fetus regularly hiccups and spends the same amount of time awake and asleep as a typical newborn.

Fetal development slows down during the 21st to 24th weeks. The eyelids and eyebrows are usually completely formed by this time, and if the fetus is a boy, his testes begin to descend from the pelvis. By the 24th week, the baby will weigh approximately 1.3 pounds (.6 kilograms).

During the period of time from the 25th to the 28th week, the baby continues to develop. Lung development is marked during this time, as the baby prepares to breathe air at birth. By the 28th week, 90% of babies born will survive, although breathing may be an issue. The lungs begin to secrete surfactant, which is necessary for breathing. Ligaments form, nostrils open and brain development proceeds at a fast rate. The baby’s retinas begin to form, and she can completely open her eyes at this point.

From the 29th to the 40th week, fetal development is focused on the development of the lungs. For the most part, all of the major systems and organs are complete. The baby’s job is to fatten up to face the environment outside of the protective womb. The baby begins to develop immunities needed to survive. At 37 weeks, the baby will continue to add approximately one ounce (28.35 grams) per day to his body weight. This week marks a pregnancy as full term, and the baby should be delivered with no complications.

Posted from wisegeek.com

21 Weeks

March 25th, 2007

Baby's hand outside womb at 21 weeks of development.