Well, I am currently in Iraq. Me and my husband have had numerous fights before deploying, a WHOLE lot, some that I don't even like to think about. We always came back together. No matter how mad we were we always came back together. There have been several occasions on which we talked about divorce, it was nothing new, always divorce everytime we would get mad. I would call on God to help me, even started going to church, but as soon as he fixed it, I would go back to my old ways. This time was different. We fought about the same stuff as usual, and this time he had enough. He left. I saw him everyday, but he didn't say anything. He would go and get the divorce papers, but that was nothing new. This time he was serious, I couldn't turn him around. I called on God again, and I think he knew I was up to my old tricks again. He didn't bring us together, we stayed apart for 1 month. For us that was HUGE, we were together all the time, so this was a huge blow. I had a friend who was already in my life, but she went through something similar. She said talk to God. "I was," I told her. But I would pray for him to realize, for him to change, then that turned into me praying for the situation, to praying for myself, to praying for him, and finally praying for help. God gave me a dream, and said he was working on my husband and that he wasn't ready yet. I then saw him one night when we were both on our way to work, and I saw him, and he let me hug him, and we were instantly together again. God worked a miracale!!!!! Don't think that there were not other people involed, those "friends" who said its better for them to part. I talked to God and left those friends alone. Our relationship did a total CHANGE and it still is to this day!!! We keep God first in our lives, and give him the glory when it is due.